You will be fine (as you probably have paid with Paypal)As you have done- contact the Seller and explain not to send!; BUT COMMUNICATEIf Business Seller- you are entitled to ALL your original payment(IPaypal)If Private Seller- you will prob have to do a Paypal dispute if the Seller is not helpful.Seller can do a Mutually agree not to complete
You bid, you win, you pay.The seller is NOT required to let you cancel or even give you a refund. Think about it, he wasted time listing the item, money to list it and more when you won. Why would *he* want to cancel the sale?eBay/paypal does NOT hold the money unless they happen to think the item sold is a high fraud item.
you are pretty much stuck - the seller doesn t have to refund your money and if he did, you would not get any shipping charges refunded and you would have to pay to ship it back