If she isn t going to ship the item, file a claim with paypal (they have buyer protection) to get your money back. They will wait for the seller to respond, and if the seller doesn t or doesn t agree to give you your money back, PayPal will investigate it. No one should wait a week to ship an item. Hopefully you can buy the same item from another seller. Good luck and feel free to email me with any questions.
the vacation part sounds fishy. i wouldn t hold my breath waiting, sounds to funny